Hate feeling this way...
Short background-- as stated in other threads, got the ILYBINILWY on Oct 31. Wife still living with me and divorce petition filed. She just started working 3 weeks ago. I told her she at least needs to contribute to children stuff since I pay all the other bills in the household-- basically supporting the person rejecting me is what is eating at me.
She still continues to get her brazilian wax even though she says she is in 'survival mode' to pay for the apt she will be moving to. The other day, after her wax, she asked me to move $15 to our joint acct to pay for half of some earrings that she bought our daughter for xmas. Meanwhile i spent $100 on her for our kids to have something to give her for xmas, and another $85 on a gift for me so the kids would have something to give ME for xmas-- that she supposedly bought (in the kids' eyes).
So anyway, she wants to be single-- and when I ask her exactly what she wants with this divorce and her life going forward-- she says she wants to be her own person, be strong, independent, so on.
What she really wants is to be single, have the kids 50% of the time so she can do whatever the rest of the time, and she wants someone else to pay for it.
Doing all I can to hold it together so that we do not have to go to court. I could really go off on her.
Short background-- as stated in other threads, got the ILYBINILWY on Oct 31. Wife still living with me and divorce petition filed. She just started working 3 weeks ago. I told her she at least needs to contribute to children stuff since I pay all the other bills in the household-- basically supporting the person rejecting me is what is eating at me.
She still continues to get her brazilian wax even though she says she is in 'survival mode' to pay for the apt she will be moving to. The other day, after her wax, she asked me to move $15 to our joint acct to pay for half of some earrings that she bought our daughter for xmas. Meanwhile i spent $100 on her for our kids to have something to give her for xmas, and another $85 on a gift for me so the kids would have something to give ME for xmas-- that she supposedly bought (in the kids' eyes).
So anyway, she wants to be single-- and when I ask her exactly what she wants with this divorce and her life going forward-- she says she wants to be her own person, be strong, independent, so on.
What she really wants is to be single, have the kids 50% of the time so she can do whatever the rest of the time, and she wants someone else to pay for it.
Doing all I can to hold it together so that we do not have to go to court. I could really go off on her.
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