I realise the title might sound a bit offensive but it's the most succinct way I could think of putting my question.
Basically I'm worried my boyfriend doesn't find me physically attractive because I'm overweight. I started a new medication and gained over 2 stone putting my BMI at 25.8 so I'm in the "overweight" range. I'm trying to lose weight but the medication messes with my metabolism so even eating 1200 calories a day and going to the gym I'm not losing anything and on top of this I have this horrible deep worry that my boyfriend feels ashamed/embarrassed of me. I feel like he's a nice guy and doesn't want to dump me just for gaining weight but that he no longer finds me attractive. I don't find me attractive anymore. So males, if your girlfriend put on this much weight would you regret agreeing to go out with her? Would you still want to have sex? Would you feel embarrassed to be seen with her in public?
Basically I'm worried my boyfriend doesn't find me physically attractive because I'm overweight. I started a new medication and gained over 2 stone putting my BMI at 25.8 so I'm in the "overweight" range. I'm trying to lose weight but the medication messes with my metabolism so even eating 1200 calories a day and going to the gym I'm not losing anything and on top of this I have this horrible deep worry that my boyfriend feels ashamed/embarrassed of me. I feel like he's a nice guy and doesn't want to dump me just for gaining weight but that he no longer finds me attractive. I don't find me attractive anymore. So males, if your girlfriend put on this much weight would you regret agreeing to go out with her? Would you still want to have sex? Would you feel embarrassed to be seen with her in public?
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