I've been married to my husband for 3 years, together 5+, no children, overall happy marriage and sex life. Had an issue a few years ago where my gut instinct told me he was up to something so I checked his laptop history and sure enough he was using myfreecams and adult friend finder. He had emailed a girl on adult friend finder saying he was in a committed relationship but was looking for a hookup. Confronted him, and he said that he felt like he was bad in bed and didn't pleasure me and that he was just looking for help to make me feel good. I didn't really buy it, but made him delete the AFF account, and made sure that he knew his life better be an open book because I was going to continue to check up on him, well fast forward two years and here we are again, checked his history as I do every few months to find he has been on MFC, which I knew and I don't love, but can deal with so long as he's just looking at girls and not emailing and private chatti ng. Noticed that he had just last weekend emailed an escort, told her she was very beautiful and he was very interested. She lives two hours away, there was no response back from her to him. I asked him about it and he swears that he wasn't looking to cheat, that he didn't know what he was doing, just being stupid. Tells me he is happy with our life and sex life and that he is always with me so of course he isn't cheating. Said he would delete the account. Haven't checked or asked to see if he has. The other thing I can't really wrap my head around is that he does his looking around and probably even emailed the escort, all while sitting a few feet away from me in our living room while he browses the internet and we watch tv. I feel like it's all BS and excuses, and can't get straight answers from him. Not sure what to do from here? He has an ex gf that he claims was always on his back accusing him of cheating when he wasn't, it really makes me want to track her down and hav e a conversation about why she always thought he was cheating. Although, I'm not sure what this would really do to help my situation! Thoughts!? Advice?
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