Are you worried about having sex with a transsexual?

Although sex can be good at times, I have never been the sort to aim at getting pussy/casual sex every week (i.e. I'm not desperate to get my dick wet). There are many reasons for this (e.g. the work required to achieve several goals I have set for myself, being falsely accused of rape etc). But another reason is the risk of having sex with a transsexual. I know it's not their fault that there were born with the wrong sex. But I see myself as 100% heterosexual. It is a huge part of my identity. It's not that there's anything wrong with being homosexual. But I cannot take part in anything that can resemble or insinuate homosexuality because I am strongly heterosexual. Even if a post-op transwoman is very attractive, since she was originally a man, there's still a hint of "man-ness" about her that makes me feel that doing anything sexual with her is gay. Yes, I might be attracted to her feminine features but they are fake and no matter what the doctors do, there's still going to be a hint of "man-ness" in her. What is sexual attraction? Is it attraction to gender? Or attraction to their sex & physical body? Or both? And in the case of their physical body, does it matter whether it is a real man body/woman body or a fake one (post-op trans)? I accept that it's not a black and white issue. For example, if she is female on the inside but a man on the outside (pre-op trans), is it wrong to reject her sexual advances? Is the person on the inside always more important than the person on the outside? In the case of a post-op trans, the person has done their best to correct their body to match their gender. Is it really snobby and awful of someone to disregard the effort the trans made for nature's mistake and reject them for sex/relationships just because the trans was originally a man or woman? More in the spoiler. Spoiler: Show What about a male who was born in the body of an attractive woman, couldn't afford/be bothered to change his body to a man and was "gay". Is it gay for a man to have sex with this male woman (assuming there was some method to prove that the woman was male)? Afterall, it's the same as having sex with another man who just happens to have the body of a woman? But then, again he's having sex with a natural woman, so how can he be gay, even if the woman is male on the inside? My belief is that a true heterosexual man would only want to have sex with a natural woman who doesn't have a male gender. Same goes for a heterosexual woman vice versa. But what are your thoughts on this, TSR? What does it mean to be a "proper" heterosexual? Can you claim to be a heterosexual yet you would be willing to have sex with a pre-op or post-op transwoman/transman despite the fact that they originally had the same sex as you? And for guys in particular, does it ever worry you that your girlfriend or girls you have had sex with in the past may be/have been a transwoman? What if the difference between a trans-pussy and a natural pussy wasn't that noticeable while you were having sex with them? Ignorance is bliss, of course. Also, it's not just about sexual attraction. Even in general, would you see and treat a transwoman as a woman or a transman as a man? Would your treatment of them depend on whether they were pre-op or post-op transsexuals? P.S. I am not saying that transsexuals should be bullied or oppressed. But is it reasonable for people to not fully accept transsexuals' inner gender and see them as the opposite sex, especially when it comes to sexual attraction?

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