Tell or not?

Sooo.. tough questions that I'm curious about which have been spurred on by a few other threads about guilty wives/husband and my own story. If you've had a EA/PA but badly regret it, ended it and are putting all your energy into your marriage... do you tell or do you try and just forget it? Reasons? If you are the BS do you want to know?

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