How Do You Ask Your Wife to have a Girlfriend?

Here is the deal. If your wife is getting all she desires out of the marriage emotionally, financially, and physically, yet you are left unsatisfied sexually...is it okay to ask your wife for a girlfriend? :D She only wants to have sex maybe 1 or 2 times a week, which isn't enough for me. I wouldn't cheat or betray her confidence and trust. At the same time I don't want her to feel inadequate. The issue has come up before about the lack of sexual contact in our relationship and she ends up just forcing it and it is OBVIOUS when it feels more like a ~chore~ to your partner. That then doesn't really feel good to me because I want someone to actually ~want~ me just as much as I want them. When the other person actually wants you, the kiss, the feeling of sex, and every touch feels completely different than when sexual favor is done out of mere feelings of obligation. When this happens I often don't even reach climax. Suggestions please...

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