| I've been with my boyfriend for 18 months now and we're going to be moving in together very soon. We're really happy together though we've had some ups and downs like everyone else but we really get on well and don't argue much at all. We've talked about us and where we're heading and we both are in this for the long haul and want to set up our lives together. Thing is we both have kind of different views on what life that'll be. I want to get married have kids and all that stuff and I've known that since I was little. He's not so sure about it though he's said kids one day when he's ready which is fair enough I feel the same no rush there. Marriage is different though. For me marriage is important and it's a step I'd want to take but for him it's not really that important it's just expensive and doesn't change anything. I'm 2 years older (I'm 25 he's 23) and I think that it probably makes a big difference. I look around me and loads of my friends are getting married and having kids and that seems like a long long way off for us yet and I don't want it to be that long though I don't want it right this instant either. I'd like to know that's where we are headed though and it's not 5-10 years down the line either. It's just so frustrating! Anyone else found themselves in a similar position? Any advice? TLDR: I'm 25 and my boyfriend is 23. I want to get married in the next couple of years and he doesn't see the point in marriage. He wants to move in together and then just stay like that really and I want more. Feel frustrated and looking for advice. | |||
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