Male POV needed desperately!

Imagine you're a 22 year old guy (if you are, you're doing splendidly so far). You're very shy by nature when it comes to women. You've had sex with 3 girls, all of them more or less hook ups from bars. You haven't really had any luck with your crushes, and you've never been in a relationship. There have been girls who liked you, but who you weren't interested in. One of them tried to hit on you constantly when you met in bars by coincident, even when she had a boyfriend (and when he cheated on her, she cried about it to you, but she returned to him), and another one sent you many messages, but you weren't keen on her. However, you didn't tell them straight that you weren't interested in them, they just didn't get your hints. Six months ago you met a nice girl in a bar, you saw each other for 2 months, and now you've been in a relatonship for 4 months. A week ago you two found out that you might've given her an STD. You had unprotected sex with one of the 3 girls (she said it was her birthday tomorrow, she was in a bar for the 1st time, and she claimed she had no STDs). You and your girlfriend are broken, you talk and cry together, but manage to patch things up almost completely. Now, however, your girlfriend (SPOILER ALERT, the author of this post) is seriously doubting your judgement when it comes to women. She doesn't have sex with anyone she doesn't have deep feelings for (that includes you, you lucky bastard), so she doesn't know if she can trust you, because 1. You had unprotected sex and only had very feeble excuses as to why you did so. 2. You didn't tell any of the girls directly that you weren't interested in them. Would you act the same now that you have a girlfriend? 3. You don't have a lot of (well, good ones anyway) experience with women, so would you get tempted easily? Now, I know you're not mind readers, I don't expect you to be. But I'd appreciate it if you could analyze this a bit for me. Do I have reasons to doubt him? I'm very poor at trusting people, and now I feel he's broken my trust a bit. I'd really appreciate any thoughts on this! (PS, I'm 20, and no, English is not my 1st language.)

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