| When myself and husband first met we were all over each other as it were. But after being together quite a few years even though we still love each other, its not like that any more, I dont expect that to be but he does not really notice me so much any more, I have told him this and he said its because he sees me all the time. We dont have sex much now as we either not in the mood or he tired cause he works nights. Plus I do suffer at times with lower back pain which does not help either. I showed him a Basque I bought the other day and he said, yeah its nice, I felt it was an answer I would get from one of my female friends. I have told him we are more like friends now and he said we should both make an effort. But its always me who is doing the instigating as in bringing up the subject, he is happy to plod on also where as I am ambitious, I am the stronger personality in the relationship. Since last year I have felt more sexy and care more about my looks and I have changed dramatically. Before that I had depression and lots of family issues so didnt feel so good but did this self help therapy and even he has said and my friends that I am like a new person now. Yet everything else is the same. We do love each other but when ever I go out with friends and get attention from guys it does feel nice to be noticed. Also to add, even though I feel more happy and he is happy that we dont row no more, I kind of feel detached from it all. Any one welcome to comment, I have just joined this site. | |||
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