I want my boyfriend to be protective jealous is this wierd?

I dont mean clingy jealous the sort of how dare you talk to another man jealous but actually show a bit of jealousy when i suppose i get hit on. My boyfriend is so relaxed which is great but sometimes i feel he is too relaxed, he told me he wouldnt care if i got with guys as he doesnt see it as cheating whereas id be heartbroken if he kissed another woman and would dump him. When we sometimes go out guys come over (sometimes im not trying to sound big headed) and ask for my number of touch my bum or put their arms around my waist to which i always say i have a boyfriend but my boyfriend always says oh you can have her, or he just totally blanks it. Sometimes I wish he would be protective and step in I had one guy who was holding onto my wrists and wouldnt let me walk away and my boyfriend just walked past without batting an eyelid. My male friends are more protective than he is. He tells me i should dress 'sexily' when i go out to gget male attention as its 'character building' becuase i lack self esteem he wants men to hit on me so i feel good about myself, but i dont feel good about myself i feel the total opposite i feel like my boyfriend thinks im ugly and nothing special so doesnt want to keep me as his girl and be protective of me.. I said he never gets jealous and he said its a good thing which it is but sometimes i do kinda wish he'd get a bit jealous it shows he cares and wants me all to himself at the moment i feel like he'd happilyyy pass me around. I would never cheat and i never have and he is my first boyfriend so i dont know if im over reacting?

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