Husband chat flirting with a real life friend

I am not sure how seriously I should take this. My husband met a girl at college and they have always been a little flirty, you could tell... she flirts with him and he enjoys it. We have since moved out of state but he chats at least 3x a week with her, and often for hours at a time. He has been using my computer for the last few days and when I went to go on Facebook today his login was up and I didn't realize it at first, until he got a message from her. It turns out I just walked into a chat they were (are) having back and forth. I should have logged out but we have already had a few arguments over the fact that I don't like the flirting, and here I just watched it all unfold. How seriously should I take this? topics are: what sex is like on drugs (and kinky sex) let's get together and get drunk what friends with benefits is like For what it's worth, I don't think they've had sex and I don't think they ever would unless there were drugs/alcohol involved, and then I can't be so sure. I am absolutely sick to my stomach at this chat and furious right now. I need some insight.

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