| Dear TAMers, Some background,I m 31 and shes 32. I recently got married to her.It was an arranged marriage however we did have time to date for about 3 months prior to marrying.The courtship period was ok,,she always seemed distant but i was ok with it since its arranged.All this time she often gets calls from 2 guys in particular,ones an ex and the other is a guy friend/colleague. I have never been introduced to either,she always dodged the question as to why. Now for the problem,she mentioned a few days after marriage that she and her guy buddy are going out of state (opposite end of the country) for 2 weeks for some work thing. I said she cant go and i got the whole jealous,insecure and trust spiel thrown at me. So I offered to come along since I could take 2 weeks off from work.She said no,I cant come due to some crap reason of risking my employment. What really bugs me is that she has always had a serious thing for this guy.She talks about his body ,his social circle,his this and that even his divorce was apparently was entirely this guy's wife's fault. EVen at lunch the other day,I was eating a cheeseburger,she was quiet the whole time.The only time she said anything was only to say that her guy friend loves cheeseburgers too. Am I out of line stopping her from this trip.More importantly.did I messed up marrying her????? | |||
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