Remorseful??

Long story short, I caught my wife texting a guy she knew from facebook. She had been doing this 2 months before I caught her. I had proof of her affair in the form of chat messages. It consisted of cybersex, setting up skype so they could video chat with each other, they masturbated together via video, talked on the phone while I was asleep, he sent pics of his genitals, etc. She talked about paying for his phone bill & meeting him in another city so they could have a date & sex. This is all while her plan was to never leave me. The guy lives over 900 miles away.

Anyway, I moved out after I confronted her. I was out of the house for 6 weeks. During this time she was texting this guy on a constant basis....all during work, until morning hours on a work night, etc. (I know this now b/c I have seen the phone records).
During this time she signed up for two dating sites as well. She has a well filled out profile on one. (She used the same name handle that I knew her from...yes, we met on the same dating site 8 years ago.)

So, she was conversing with her guy on the phone at night & texting him during the day. At the same time she was emailing & chatting with these new guys from the dating site.

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I am now back in the house after I met with her for a MC meeting. Supposedly we are reconcilling. But She has not done any heavy lifting since that first MC meeting. She still has her phone locked, she has not gone to IC or MC since the first one.
The phone records show that for 2 weeks after I was back home, she was texting the guy. Even though the MC told us not to contact anyone outside the marriage.

Now I have been back home since Aug 31st. Its been over two months.
She is still on the dating site, but she is just checking the messages she recieves...never replying back.


Then last week....my heart sank again.

I had to go out of town with some work peers one day last week for a job meeting. That morning before I left, I kissed her good bye in a loving manner. Then on my way down to the meeting we texted back & forth about things. She texted me about what she was going to make for dinner, etc. On the way back home, Iwe texted some more...even talked on the phone.
She told me to text her when I got into town & got off the interstate hwy, which I did.

When I got home, she had dinner cooked. It was great. She seemed pleasant & happy. It was a nice evening.

Before I went to bed, I decided to check the phone records, just out of curiosity. Thats when my heart sank...
She had called the guy (one I caught her online with) and talked to him form 80 minutes. The records showed my text to her (telling her I was back in town). Her phone call ended with him 2 minutes after receiving my text.
I couldnt contain myself at work the next day. My coworkers were worried about me.

My thoughts are that I have been trying to be the best I can be for her.
She has been telling her mom that I have been good & that I have had an "epiphany" on what I need to do for her. She has told her friends that she has been 'working hard on the marriage.' (Long story how I know this.)

Anyway, I think she will never change. I mean will the next time we have a fight or disagreement (and we will) will she go & call this guy?
Does she think talking to him is ok...like talking to a friend?

This is on top of her medical problems. I have supported her since she found out she was going to have to have a hysterectomy. I guess she thought she would let this a$$hole know about her condition. I am sure that will be her excuse.

Sorry for the rant. I know the answer to all this.