Having browsed a lot of forums and read a lot of debates on whether it's permissible for guys to check out girls in front of their own girlfriend or 'harmlessly' flirt with another girl, watch porn, and visit strip clubs etc. A popular line is:
'Let him do what he wants he's coming home to you not the other girl at the end of the day'.
I don't understand how this is at all a valid excuse. Just because somebody is 'coming home to you' metaphorically or physically doesn't mean he necessarily wants to be with you.Who's to say he's not just with you because at the moment future prospects aren't looking too promising? Or that he's biding his time until the person he is 'harmlessly flirting' with will say yes? I don't see how 'him coming back to you' is any validation for guys and even girls to do what they like in the reasoning that 'they're still with you so it's clearly okay'
What do you think? Do I have a valid point or am I just ranting? :D
'Let him do what he wants he's coming home to you not the other girl at the end of the day'.
I don't understand how this is at all a valid excuse. Just because somebody is 'coming home to you' metaphorically or physically doesn't mean he necessarily wants to be with you.Who's to say he's not just with you because at the moment future prospects aren't looking too promising? Or that he's biding his time until the person he is 'harmlessly flirting' with will say yes? I don't see how 'him coming back to you' is any validation for guys and even girls to do what they like in the reasoning that 'they're still with you so it's clearly okay'
What do you think? Do I have a valid point or am I just ranting? :D
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