I left my husband. Together for 13yrs. It's been really rough and rocky the past few years. I've thought about divorce often. I left him a year ago but took him back 6 months later. He has addictive behaviors, depression and anger issues. I'm not perfect. I've played my share of the damage. But I started feeling depressed too.. He was miserable all the time and it was causing me to become miserable too. I had no energy or desire to go anywhere or do anything because nothing was fun anymore.. We no longer lived like husband and wife. Didn't wear our rings. Didn't sleep in bed together. Fought all the time. Couldn't agree on anything. I know that I need to be separated from him so that I can repair myself and find myself again. He thinks that means I want to find someone new. The advice I need is how do I handle this? He's calling me all the time.. He's depressed, not eating, not sleeping.. Talking about quitting his job. He thinks of me as his only friend. I don't want to give him flase hope.. Yet I don't want to abandon him while he's so low. I know that I'm not the right person to help him get over me. How do I handle this situation. I'm afraid cutting him off completely will cause him to be more depressed and I feel horrible for hurting him.. But I know it's for the best; that we bring out the worse in each other. That all the fighting is dragging us both down. I truly believe that I'm not right for him. Help please!!
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