Been married for 6 years and have 2 small children ages 1 and 5. Two years ago, husband wanted to try anal. I hesitantly agreed and have regretted it ever since. We have done it a number of times over the past 2 years and I never liked it. Never. I have decided that enough is enough and I no longer want to do it. I've communicated that I hate it and I can't take it anymore. He claims he can't turn off the feeling and needs it. It's to the point where I cringe when I hear him come into the bedroom because I'm afraid it will lead to anal. I'm terrified of any kind of intimacy... there is very little love left in me because how can someone pressure me into something I find beyond horrible? And by pressure, I mean if I say no (which I do), he will leave the apartment in a huff and go out to get drunk...come home at 2am and crash on the couch. What kind of marriage is this? He will not go to therapy because he doesn't think there's anything wrong with him. Hel p.
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