So my wife had an affair. Ever sense our marriage has been terrible. I don't think I can continue with marriage. The problem is, we currently live in California. We have only lived here a year. Moved her for a job. We are originally from Idaho. Live their our whole lives. Both families are there. Everything is there. Nothing is here in California except my job that I love very much.
I know if we get divorced my wife will want to move back to Idaho. She has no reason to stay in California. She will take my 4 year old girl with her. She will probably move in with her parents. She is a stay at home mom. She cant provide for herself and our daughter on her own.
I know what you are all saying. Legally she cant move the child out of state. I won't fight her on this. There is no way she can survive on her own and provide for our daughter.
If we get divorced and she goes back to Idaho, I will eventually have to quite my job (that is my dream job) and move back to Idaho. I don't see any other alternative.
If I stayed in California, I would not be able to father my child. I love my child more than anything and want to be in her life. Even the fact of being away from her for a few months while I find a job in Idaho just kills me.
Honestly don't know what to do. Has anyone here parented children form another state or far away? How do you do it? I only care about my relationship with my child. She's all I have.
Please advise.
I know if we get divorced my wife will want to move back to Idaho. She has no reason to stay in California. She will take my 4 year old girl with her. She will probably move in with her parents. She is a stay at home mom. She cant provide for herself and our daughter on her own.
I know what you are all saying. Legally she cant move the child out of state. I won't fight her on this. There is no way she can survive on her own and provide for our daughter.
If we get divorced and she goes back to Idaho, I will eventually have to quite my job (that is my dream job) and move back to Idaho. I don't see any other alternative.
If I stayed in California, I would not be able to father my child. I love my child more than anything and want to be in her life. Even the fact of being away from her for a few months while I find a job in Idaho just kills me.
Honestly don't know what to do. Has anyone here parented children form another state or far away? How do you do it? I only care about my relationship with my child. She's all I have.
Please advise.
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