My wife very rarely initiates sex. It may happen once in maybe 40-50 times that we have sex. We do it maybe once a week, usually once every 2 weeks.
Some years after we got married, I decided that I wanted her to initiate too, so I stopped. And there was no sex. But when we do have sex, she enjoys it. She basically wants me to start, maybe she is still shy and doesn't want to be seen as a "h0rny ****", even though we have been married for almost 15 years. Indian girls are that way many times.
In the early years, I would initiate every time and she would be receptive. In the middle years, she would shoot me down now and then saying she was tired or if she was mad at me. Lately, I just give her a back rub and get her warmed up and start feeling her up and get started and she lets me. Some weeks ago, I gave her an awesome back massage and didn't make any moves. I just rolled over and closed my eyes. When the lights were off, she made aggressive moves on me and totally had her way with me. And I enjoyed it thoroughly. :)
So my question is, what do you guys do? Do you not care that your wife does not initiate (assuming this is the case) and make moves yourself?
Some years after we got married, I decided that I wanted her to initiate too, so I stopped. And there was no sex. But when we do have sex, she enjoys it. She basically wants me to start, maybe she is still shy and doesn't want to be seen as a "h0rny ****", even though we have been married for almost 15 years. Indian girls are that way many times.
In the early years, I would initiate every time and she would be receptive. In the middle years, she would shoot me down now and then saying she was tired or if she was mad at me. Lately, I just give her a back rub and get her warmed up and start feeling her up and get started and she lets me. Some weeks ago, I gave her an awesome back massage and didn't make any moves. I just rolled over and closed my eyes. When the lights were off, she made aggressive moves on me and totally had her way with me. And I enjoyed it thoroughly. :)
So my question is, what do you guys do? Do you not care that your wife does not initiate (assuming this is the case) and make moves yourself?
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