My wife and I have been together some 25 years and married 19 years.
Even at the beginning the sex was never mind blowing. When we met she was a virgin and had very little 'experience'. She didn't like kissing and thought giving oral was disgusting (she has never done it) but enjoyed receiving.
Although the sex was very 'vanilla' - even in total privacy she could never let go and enjoy the moment. I often had to ask her if she had orgasmed because there was no visual or audible clue...we would have sex a couple of times a week, but she would often reject my advances.
Over the past 19 years we have had two children and sex dwindled year by year.
If I suggested sex outside or tell her how much I would love her to BJ me or even just nibble my scrotum I would be called a disgusting pervert etc. She was rejecting my advances more and more to the point that I stopped initiating.
Until about two years ago we might have sex 6-8 times a year. She would say 'I'm feeling horny'...I would jump at the opportunity even though it was even more vanilla - no kissing her lips or nipples, no touching in the southern hemisphere. Basically she would pull my c0ck till hard, lube up and.....3 minutes later all over.
Over the past two years I have lost complete and utter interest in her altogether both sexually and emotionally.
On the odd occasion that she tries to initiate *I* am the one who now turns her down. Her attitude towards me and sex had changed me from very high drive to no drive atall. When I wake up in teh morning with a boner its kinda 'phew! he still works!'
I am now the guilty one for changing our marriage from 'sexless' at 6-8 times a year to completely sexless at zero times a year. Its my fault.
I stay because of our two children, who mean more to me than sex...but when they leave the nest, I'm not staying with a woman with whom I have absolutely nothing in common with anymore.
Apart from just wanting to vent a bit - I spent alot of last night unable to sleep feeling angry and resentful towards my wife...
I'd also be interested to hear from any other husbands, or wives, who, due to their spouses attitude etc, have also ended up taking their marriage from sexless to completely sexless.
Even at the beginning the sex was never mind blowing. When we met she was a virgin and had very little 'experience'. She didn't like kissing and thought giving oral was disgusting (she has never done it) but enjoyed receiving.
Although the sex was very 'vanilla' - even in total privacy she could never let go and enjoy the moment. I often had to ask her if she had orgasmed because there was no visual or audible clue...we would have sex a couple of times a week, but she would often reject my advances.
Over the past 19 years we have had two children and sex dwindled year by year.
If I suggested sex outside or tell her how much I would love her to BJ me or even just nibble my scrotum I would be called a disgusting pervert etc. She was rejecting my advances more and more to the point that I stopped initiating.
Until about two years ago we might have sex 6-8 times a year. She would say 'I'm feeling horny'...I would jump at the opportunity even though it was even more vanilla - no kissing her lips or nipples, no touching in the southern hemisphere. Basically she would pull my c0ck till hard, lube up and.....3 minutes later all over.
Over the past two years I have lost complete and utter interest in her altogether both sexually and emotionally.
On the odd occasion that she tries to initiate *I* am the one who now turns her down. Her attitude towards me and sex had changed me from very high drive to no drive atall. When I wake up in teh morning with a boner its kinda 'phew! he still works!'
I am now the guilty one for changing our marriage from 'sexless' at 6-8 times a year to completely sexless at zero times a year. Its my fault.
I stay because of our two children, who mean more to me than sex...but when they leave the nest, I'm not staying with a woman with whom I have absolutely nothing in common with anymore.
Apart from just wanting to vent a bit - I spent alot of last night unable to sleep feeling angry and resentful towards my wife...
I'd also be interested to hear from any other husbands, or wives, who, due to their spouses attitude etc, have also ended up taking their marriage from sexless to completely sexless.
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