Hello, my husband and I met when I was 13 and he was 16. Been married for 16yrs, together for 21 yrs. We were teen parents, started out our career at a very young age. If I compared our life to other friends that we know, we have it all. I'm a nurse for >12 yrs, kids, house, 2 boats, trailer, 4 vehicles. I worked so hard to be where were at.
However, the past year or so we have been growing distance. My husband has been putting his friends before our family needs. He doesn't want to do any family event together. Every day after work, every weekend, all he wants to do is hang out with friends. Take coworkers out to the lake and drink almost everyday. When my kids and I ask to go, he'll say "I'm taking my friends." He comes home intoxicated. Talking to him has not done any good. Can't reason with him. I am to the point of walking away from every we built for 21 yrs.
Any suggestions?
However, the past year or so we have been growing distance. My husband has been putting his friends before our family needs. He doesn't want to do any family event together. Every day after work, every weekend, all he wants to do is hang out with friends. Take coworkers out to the lake and drink almost everyday. When my kids and I ask to go, he'll say "I'm taking my friends." He comes home intoxicated. Talking to him has not done any good. Can't reason with him. I am to the point of walking away from every we built for 21 yrs.
Any suggestions?
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