I'm sorry if the question is badly phrased but there has been something nagging at me for a while. I started university this year and met a guy, I really liked him and found him attractive and we ended up sleeping together for a couple of months. For reasons on his part it ended and a few months later when talking through our problems he revealed he only slept with me because as he phrased it, he was 'desperate'. Naturally, I was upset by this but a number of my friends have pointed out that as we are now friends, that I shouldn't mind how our relationship begun.
For me, it is a big issue as our friendship wasn't founded on what I thought was mutual liking for each other. However one of my close friends has said that as this guy and I are now close friends, which isn't due to desperation on his part, 'then what is the problem?' I wanted to see what peoples views were on how important are the reasons for a friendship forming compared to the resulting friendship, am I being irrational or do I have a right to be upset?
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