My husband and I will have a second anniversary this month. We have been together for 4 and half years and we have an 8 month old daughter and I am 4 months pregnant. Today I accidently discovered some old email messages and realized he was had relations with several prostitutes about 2 years ago. Up to this point in our relationship, we have not had any problems. He has always treated me well and I do the same. We have argued in the past but nothing that will keep us unhappy with each other for too long. He is an excellent father and until today I thought he was a great husband. I always felt so blessed!
I feel like we have been living under false pretense all this time! I had no idea. We did long distance for a year where I worked about 5 hours driving away so I worked one week and spent the other week with him. At the time when he did these things, we didn't have any problems. He took these women to an apartment that we shared together. He conducted these relations days before proposing to and months before we got married. I am so confused. I never saw this coming and I don't know what to do. It hurts me to think that my daughter should grow up not having her parents together. I kept looking at her and crying.
I don't want to tell anyone about this dreadful thing because I don't want my family and friends seeing him differently. I don't know what to make of my marriage now. Or how I should go forward. I have heard some similar stories in the past and always felt people should not stay in cheating relationships. He says he finally stopped but I question if he really has since the situation does not encourage him these days. I worry that because he did this when things were supposedly good, what he will do if they get bad.?I have lost trust in him. Any advice on what I should do?? Thank you,
I feel like we have been living under false pretense all this time! I had no idea. We did long distance for a year where I worked about 5 hours driving away so I worked one week and spent the other week with him. At the time when he did these things, we didn't have any problems. He took these women to an apartment that we shared together. He conducted these relations days before proposing to and months before we got married. I am so confused. I never saw this coming and I don't know what to do. It hurts me to think that my daughter should grow up not having her parents together. I kept looking at her and crying.
I don't want to tell anyone about this dreadful thing because I don't want my family and friends seeing him differently. I don't know what to make of my marriage now. Or how I should go forward. I have heard some similar stories in the past and always felt people should not stay in cheating relationships. He says he finally stopped but I question if he really has since the situation does not encourage him these days. I worry that because he did this when things were supposedly good, what he will do if they get bad.?I have lost trust in him. Any advice on what I should do?? Thank you,
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