I'm not pregnant, this is just something from a long time ago that I'm curious about.
When I got pregnant with our first daughter, H was initially not thrilled (even though I thought at the time that we'd had her on purpose. Later he told me that it was an accident. We were using withdrawl and had been married for 6 months, together for 4 1/2 years).
As soon as I started to show (about 4 months), H would lose his erection when we had sex. Always it was as soon as I got on top. On my back you couldn't see the belly because it was small and flattened out. I'm very slender (was maybe 115 lbs when I got pregnant, and had only gained maybe 5 pregnancy lbs at this point, so the ONLY change was in my belly). I thought maybe he wasn't attracted to me with a belly because he liked very slender women.
I dealt with it by just keeping my shirt on for a month or two, then he finally got over it.
H would NOT talk about it, so I never got to find out exactly what was going on. It didn't happen again in the second pregnancy, so I'm guessing it was a "there's a baby in there" thing.
Mostly, I'm just curious if any other couple experienced this.
When I got pregnant with our first daughter, H was initially not thrilled (even though I thought at the time that we'd had her on purpose. Later he told me that it was an accident. We were using withdrawl and had been married for 6 months, together for 4 1/2 years).
As soon as I started to show (about 4 months), H would lose his erection when we had sex. Always it was as soon as I got on top. On my back you couldn't see the belly because it was small and flattened out. I'm very slender (was maybe 115 lbs when I got pregnant, and had only gained maybe 5 pregnancy lbs at this point, so the ONLY change was in my belly). I thought maybe he wasn't attracted to me with a belly because he liked very slender women.
I dealt with it by just keeping my shirt on for a month or two, then he finally got over it.
H would NOT talk about it, so I never got to find out exactly what was going on. It didn't happen again in the second pregnancy, so I'm guessing it was a "there's a baby in there" thing.
Mostly, I'm just curious if any other couple experienced this.
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