I apologize in advance as I have never posted before. I am leaving my H of 21 yrs in April. I now understand that he will never change. I don't want to make h sound evil, I put up with it out of love that he would one day see what a good & loving wife and mother I am but it's never going to happen. He completely broke my spirit after years of abuse and neglect. The last 6 have been hell on earth. He tried to manipulate our kids against me so he could continue with his APS. Destroyed my home and my oldest daughters. Would take them to her house and let her love on them but tell the kids she was a boyhood friend , ex gf from secondary school. He is a long haul truck driver and makes good money, NONE came to his home or kids. I just had my 10 month checkup and thank god the cancer is not back , I have been fighting fort life since 2011 and sick since early 2010 with cancer. I feel like I have been through war. I have been in therapy for the last 7 months.
Day was May 14 2014 he was in a serious truck accident on the 20th and from august continued his affair and still trying to gaslight and control the situation. My older kids confronted dad on all his BS and he couldn't deny any of it. I am having a real hard time here, he always says he going to change and blah blah blah blah blah. I feel guilty , I don't know why, I'm scared as hell. I am secretly moving with all my kids and are looking forward to a new environment in the home. Please I need advice, he isn't going to let this be easy. I have legal separation paperwork all ready but he is going to make this really hard with my kids and if I thought he was a nasty SOB the last 6 yrs he's gonna get worse. Please help!
Thank you
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Day was May 14 2014 he was in a serious truck accident on the 20th and from august continued his affair and still trying to gaslight and control the situation. My older kids confronted dad on all his BS and he couldn't deny any of it. I am having a real hard time here, he always says he going to change and blah blah blah blah blah. I feel guilty , I don't know why, I'm scared as hell. I am secretly moving with all my kids and are looking forward to a new environment in the home. Please I need advice, he isn't going to let this be easy. I have legal separation paperwork all ready but he is going to make this really hard with my kids and if I thought he was a nasty SOB the last 6 yrs he's gonna get worse. Please help!
Thank you
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