Need help with my spending to save me and my relationship

I am turning 25 in Sept of this year. Until, I have been horrible with my finances. My job brings me about 20K a year after taxes and I live at home. I have about 10k in Credit Card Debt and 4k I owe to my dentist.

I really messed up my finances and my Girlfriend has had enough. Shes threatening to leave me, because of my spending and financial indiscretions. I still live at home and so does she. She makes almost 60k more than me as a Registered Nurse.

I think she is going through her quarter life crisis, all her friends are getting married and buying houses, while I'm spending all my cash on my hobbies "cars, hunting, fishing and motorcycles".

Our relationship is rocky and we fight over the most trivial things sometimes, and I feel occasionally that settling down with this women will only bring more problems.

But I do love her, but I feel sometimes that I am not in love with her. I don't know how to explain it. Sometimes all I can think about is her. Sometimes we fight so bad, I just want to call it quits and looks for someone more suitable to me.

Any advice on tips etc to help me with my horrible financial state

Any advice on what I should do with my relationship.

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