Hello,
I have posted a Thread recently under a different name, but my husband found me here and wanted to continue updating my history, only thread, under the name of "malagacoast".
Any way, I have keep the NC for about two weeks and the divorce is being done.
Yesterday, he send me and e mail and I did respond to it.
Told him that I would have prefer to works things out with him since I do believe there is still love between us. And we did not have any other problems with the exception of his continue close relationship with coworkers and exes for the past 5 years, (the term of the relationship). Many of these e mails, texts etc being overly friendly, openly flirtatious and double meaning.
He answered the e mail telling me he wanted desperately to give it another try, but was afraid when some of these women will write to him, I would take it wrong.
I have not problem with him communicating with coworkers as I have explain it many times, I have a problem with the way they communicate, way too close , personal and flirty.
So I did tell him, again, he was more worried about not making these girls uncomfortable than loosing me.
Told him farewell.
I know this is the right thing for me to do, but I am again, at point 1.
Devastated and with NO HOPE.
I am wondering if someone has been in my shoes before and if their husband/significant other has turned around and did the right thing and they were able to reconcile and make amends and live happily ever after.
Thank you for listening.
Any reinforcement from you guys is very welcome. Because obviously I am as brainless as a brick.
I have posted a Thread recently under a different name, but my husband found me here and wanted to continue updating my history, only thread, under the name of "malagacoast".
Any way, I have keep the NC for about two weeks and the divorce is being done.
Yesterday, he send me and e mail and I did respond to it.
Told him that I would have prefer to works things out with him since I do believe there is still love between us. And we did not have any other problems with the exception of his continue close relationship with coworkers and exes for the past 5 years, (the term of the relationship). Many of these e mails, texts etc being overly friendly, openly flirtatious and double meaning.
He answered the e mail telling me he wanted desperately to give it another try, but was afraid when some of these women will write to him, I would take it wrong.
I have not problem with him communicating with coworkers as I have explain it many times, I have a problem with the way they communicate, way too close , personal and flirty.
So I did tell him, again, he was more worried about not making these girls uncomfortable than loosing me.
Told him farewell.
I know this is the right thing for me to do, but I am again, at point 1.
Devastated and with NO HOPE.
I am wondering if someone has been in my shoes before and if their husband/significant other has turned around and did the right thing and they were able to reconcile and make amends and live happily ever after.
Thank you for listening.
Any reinforcement from you guys is very welcome. Because obviously I am as brainless as a brick.
Put the internet to work for you.
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