I met a girl who I thought was 'perfect' for me, she ticked literally all the boxes in what I look for in a girl. I read the wrong signals from her and she wasn't interested in me romantically and it hurt me a lot after getting rejected. Now every girl I see or have seen just doesn't compare to her and makes me wonder if I'll ever meet another girl similar to or better than her.
The big problem is now my standards will be set higher as I'll be comparing other girls to her and I'll be more 'picky' than I was before. I'm not desperate but a sense of worry is starting to creep in, that I won't meet another girl as 'good' as her.
I am Chinese and was born here in England. I'm very westernised compared to other Chinese guys and people joke that I'm more English than Chinese. I've always been interested in white girls as a preference and didn't really like dating Chinese girls. But the girl that I was interested in is Chinese and after the experience, it's put me off Chinese girls altogether. Yet, at the same time I feel dating within my race will be better off in the future.
What can I do and should I just forget about comparing this girl to other girls?
The big problem is now my standards will be set higher as I'll be comparing other girls to her and I'll be more 'picky' than I was before. I'm not desperate but a sense of worry is starting to creep in, that I won't meet another girl as 'good' as her.
I am Chinese and was born here in England. I'm very westernised compared to other Chinese guys and people joke that I'm more English than Chinese. I've always been interested in white girls as a preference and didn't really like dating Chinese girls. But the girl that I was interested in is Chinese and after the experience, it's put me off Chinese girls altogether. Yet, at the same time I feel dating within my race will be better off in the future.
What can I do and should I just forget about comparing this girl to other girls?
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