So I've been in a relationship with a guy for a month now. It's got very serious very quickly, despite both of us knowing I'm about to graduate uni and will probably end up moving away from the area. I feel like he's 'end game', I've had two very very serious relationships in the past, and there's something about this one that's just different, a really strong gut instinct.
We were talking last night about me leaving uni and having to move away - he has just moved to the area for a job. I said I wish I could stay here (as in the area) after graduation.
He however shocked me, and said "well why don't you? I wouldn't charge you rent, well I would just share it, and it would be less then your mum wants in rent." (My mum wants £82 a week board when I move back, so either way I am moving out ASAP)
I said sarcastically "well, that would be a super smart idea after we've been together three months", and then he was like "oh yeah, yeah, obviously I didn't mean move in with me, that would be silly".
So then I felt SO awkward, and was like, "It'd would be fun to live together but obviously not sensible", and then he just kinda changed the topic super quick.
Do you think he meant move in with him, or just stay round this area? I have stayed at his house before when he's not been there so I could study in the quiet, and he said he likes how he feels he can trust me with his place and kitten.
CONFUSED.
We were talking last night about me leaving uni and having to move away - he has just moved to the area for a job. I said I wish I could stay here (as in the area) after graduation.
He however shocked me, and said "well why don't you? I wouldn't charge you rent, well I would just share it, and it would be less then your mum wants in rent." (My mum wants £82 a week board when I move back, so either way I am moving out ASAP)
I said sarcastically "well, that would be a super smart idea after we've been together three months", and then he was like "oh yeah, yeah, obviously I didn't mean move in with me, that would be silly".
So then I felt SO awkward, and was like, "It'd would be fun to live together but obviously not sensible", and then he just kinda changed the topic super quick.
Do you think he meant move in with him, or just stay round this area? I have stayed at his house before when he's not been there so I could study in the quiet, and he said he likes how he feels he can trust me with his place and kitten.
CONFUSED.
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