Hello all I am a newbie here and currently going right out of my mind. Ok excuse me if this is a bit long. My husband and I have been married for 21 years, and have 5 beautiful children. We have had our fair share of ups and downs over the years generally being a struggle with business and stress relating to that. My husband has always accused me of being not to worried about sex and he always has to initiate things in that department according to him.. but he has sometimes treated me like dirt in various points thru our marriage. I admit sex is generally not at my top agenda, bringing up children and day to day stresses seem to take over and dosnt make me feel sexy!!
Okay so with our line of business he has many meetings and nights out. He also has been away abroad working the longest of times most recent for a month. In this time somebody whom he had fallen out with in business and owed money to texted me and said he was ok finding money for the lapdancers. I felt sick and confronted him by email as he was away. The worst thing was we were going through an incredibly hard financial time a couple of months back and he would take £300 - £400 cash out with him on a night out and I used to complain to him we couldnt afford it and he said he had to buy clients a few drinks to do business.. His answer to my confrontation was if I believed what this guy said I really didnt think much of him at all. He said myself and our children were and always will be his priority and the reason he works so hard to give us all what we deserve in life and that he loves me so much and has so much respect for me. I left it at that but have never forgotton about it, obviously. He told me how much he has missed me and when he first came back home a week ago things were like we had first met.
Until yesterday - I was going through some old washing that had been around for a bit, and when I was hanging it out to dry I noticed one of his formal white shirts had yellow labels pinned to it. They were wet but I could make out the writing from the dry cleaners "lipstick and fake tan, please treat" ... he generally takes all his shirts to the dry cleaners as he says its cheap (it is) and saves hassle for me.
Now this label was pinned to HIS shirt, with that I stormed into the house and asked him to explain himself. He just sat there and said its not his .. wasnt even a label from this particular dry cleaner he uses and he really dosnt know how it got there!!!!
With that he said he has nothing to explain himself for and is not guilty. For the record this shirt did not go away with him, there were no such stains on it and it appeared clean, just with these labels on. I think he had put it in the wash by mistake when clean or thought it needed freshening or something ??
Now am I going mad, or am I being a doormat. Or could there be a very plausible explanation for this!!!????? I am going out of my mind with worry and cannot stand to look at him at the moment. I am in two minds whether to confront his friend (also our employee) who always accompanies him on these nights out and get him to tell me what actually goes on and how far things go in these places as far as my husband is concerned.. I dont think he has time for an affair, but at the moment my mind is putting two and two together and making 1000!!! Anyones thoughts and help much appreciated I dont know which way to turn :mad::(
Okay so with our line of business he has many meetings and nights out. He also has been away abroad working the longest of times most recent for a month. In this time somebody whom he had fallen out with in business and owed money to texted me and said he was ok finding money for the lapdancers. I felt sick and confronted him by email as he was away. The worst thing was we were going through an incredibly hard financial time a couple of months back and he would take £300 - £400 cash out with him on a night out and I used to complain to him we couldnt afford it and he said he had to buy clients a few drinks to do business.. His answer to my confrontation was if I believed what this guy said I really didnt think much of him at all. He said myself and our children were and always will be his priority and the reason he works so hard to give us all what we deserve in life and that he loves me so much and has so much respect for me. I left it at that but have never forgotton about it, obviously. He told me how much he has missed me and when he first came back home a week ago things were like we had first met.
Until yesterday - I was going through some old washing that had been around for a bit, and when I was hanging it out to dry I noticed one of his formal white shirts had yellow labels pinned to it. They were wet but I could make out the writing from the dry cleaners "lipstick and fake tan, please treat" ... he generally takes all his shirts to the dry cleaners as he says its cheap (it is) and saves hassle for me.
Now this label was pinned to HIS shirt, with that I stormed into the house and asked him to explain himself. He just sat there and said its not his .. wasnt even a label from this particular dry cleaner he uses and he really dosnt know how it got there!!!!
With that he said he has nothing to explain himself for and is not guilty. For the record this shirt did not go away with him, there were no such stains on it and it appeared clean, just with these labels on. I think he had put it in the wash by mistake when clean or thought it needed freshening or something ??
Now am I going mad, or am I being a doormat. Or could there be a very plausible explanation for this!!!????? I am going out of my mind with worry and cannot stand to look at him at the moment. I am in two minds whether to confront his friend (also our employee) who always accompanies him on these nights out and get him to tell me what actually goes on and how far things go in these places as far as my husband is concerned.. I dont think he has time for an affair, but at the moment my mind is putting two and two together and making 1000!!! Anyones thoughts and help much appreciated I dont know which way to turn :mad::(
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