Obviously someone I know has been demonstrating these traits for a long time. Maybe if I understood it more I could combat it.
Overly sensitive - If something is said that can be taken 2 different ways, it will automatically be taken as the worst of the 2 options...every time. Or takes it as an insult if you don't like what they like. Also cannot discuss an issue without crying, even when they begin the discussion - they are crying before you even say a word.
High expectations/Demands perfection.
Holds themselves in high regard morally.
Believes themselves to be a highly positive person.
Always think they work harder than anyone else and always seem to be trying to prove that. Along with that, has blinders on as to the benefits and work you do in the relationship.
Always seems to be struggling with someone at work and it is nearly an everyday issue.
Clean freak.
Acts very independent yet gets upset, sulks, becomes silent when they perceive they are not receiving enough attention.
Passes judgement on people and relationships without knowing the details.
Will stand their ground to the extreme detriment of the relationship on irrational issues such as whether a patio should be cement, wood, or cobblestone.
Never stops pushing the idea of having the perfect showplace home, no matter what the cost.
Does not know how to choose important battles and nit pics things to death.
Spies and plays head games.
Never seems to be in the moment and is always lost in thought.
Is there a classification for this or is it multiple issues?
Overly sensitive - If something is said that can be taken 2 different ways, it will automatically be taken as the worst of the 2 options...every time. Or takes it as an insult if you don't like what they like. Also cannot discuss an issue without crying, even when they begin the discussion - they are crying before you even say a word.
High expectations/Demands perfection.
Holds themselves in high regard morally.
Believes themselves to be a highly positive person.
Always think they work harder than anyone else and always seem to be trying to prove that. Along with that, has blinders on as to the benefits and work you do in the relationship.
Always seems to be struggling with someone at work and it is nearly an everyday issue.
Clean freak.
Acts very independent yet gets upset, sulks, becomes silent when they perceive they are not receiving enough attention.
Passes judgement on people and relationships without knowing the details.
Will stand their ground to the extreme detriment of the relationship on irrational issues such as whether a patio should be cement, wood, or cobblestone.
Never stops pushing the idea of having the perfect showplace home, no matter what the cost.
Does not know how to choose important battles and nit pics things to death.
Spies and plays head games.
Never seems to be in the moment and is always lost in thought.
Is there a classification for this or is it multiple issues?
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