Hi.Everyone.Following on from my earlier post regarding my partner calling our relationship off, she still remains here in our house together with our son.She said 1 month or so ago that she does not want to be with me anymore but will stay as she has no full time job or anywhere to go and that my son (13) wants to live full time with me.
I know i am in a weak position as i cant seem to help myself in wanting back our relationship.She has been so horrible this week at some points saying she hates and despises me and that she wishes she could take my son away from me.
Then she can be quite nice and make me some tea and be pleasant.I have ( or so i thought) been a good partner, never hit her, totally loyal, no affairs, make good money and pay all the bills.
She says i have not shown her love for 15 years and it is now too late but i have loved her so much. Why do i still keep trying to convince her we can try again? I have asked if she will try MC but she just says no way. I want to keep my family together for my son and to be honest for me as i love her.
Is there anything i can do to help myself or should i get it in my head that i have no chance? The thing is she will not give me any chance to do what she says i didnt such as love her more. Please help with any suggestions.
This has been going on for 4 months now and mostly she looks straight through me as if i am a ghost. It is as if an alien has kidnapped her and replaced her with someone who looks like her. She used to be so loving and altered over night.
I have thought about an affair but she only goes out once a month with her friends.
I know i am in a weak position as i cant seem to help myself in wanting back our relationship.She has been so horrible this week at some points saying she hates and despises me and that she wishes she could take my son away from me.
Then she can be quite nice and make me some tea and be pleasant.I have ( or so i thought) been a good partner, never hit her, totally loyal, no affairs, make good money and pay all the bills.
She says i have not shown her love for 15 years and it is now too late but i have loved her so much. Why do i still keep trying to convince her we can try again? I have asked if she will try MC but she just says no way. I want to keep my family together for my son and to be honest for me as i love her.
Is there anything i can do to help myself or should i get it in my head that i have no chance? The thing is she will not give me any chance to do what she says i didnt such as love her more. Please help with any suggestions.
This has been going on for 4 months now and mostly she looks straight through me as if i am a ghost. It is as if an alien has kidnapped her and replaced her with someone who looks like her. She used to be so loving and altered over night.
I have thought about an affair but she only goes out once a month with her friends.
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