My wife is only ok with dirty talk if its through texting

Ok new here....little background..im a rough around the edges kind of a man. I work in the oil industry and kinda a redneck roughneck.. So obviously I have salty language however I can be soft and sweet and romantic I had a discussion with my wife of 6 years ( we are both 40 and have known each other since high school) were she informed me that I was to ” vulgar” when discussing sex ..then 2 or three days later she sends me some of the most explicit text I have ever read ...later I asked whats the deal she replied that texting dirty is ok just not ok in person ....anyone else find this odd.. Btw im HD she's LD
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