I am in my mid 30s, him his early 40s. He has 2 kids already. I have none. Time is clearly running out. I have always really, really wanted kids. I figured by now I would have had a couple of kids and be done with all that. I am what is called "circumstantially childless", never my choice. I know his last relationship ended in part because she was younger than him, and also wanted to have a family. I really like this guy, everything is wonderful between us, and its heartbreaking for me every time he says something about wanting to get a vasectomy. I am afraid to end it with him, because before him it had been years and years since since someone liked me enough to even want to be in a relationship with me. I have no idea if I would ever find someone again to be with, let alone someone who wants to have a kid, and with me.
I feel like this is something that is ultimately a major deal breaker for relationships, am I wrong?
I feel like this is something that is ultimately a major deal breaker for relationships, am I wrong?
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