I've been doing SO good and should have just let this one go or at least responded with a thank you.
I was gone most of today with various classes and services at church, and he knew that since I had told him due to child swap issues. We also had a strained conversation about the kids' schedule since he changed it on me, but then wouldn't respect my changes as a result and got all pissy. That was resolved before church, but he was still mad I think about not having control of it and being called out.
When I moved out in the middle of June, I left a litter box (scooped/clean) in the basement for 2 of the 3 cats. I took 1 cat with me, 2 stayed. The 2 that stayed are largely outdoor cats but come inside in the frigid months and use the litter box. I left it for them and also because it was easier/more sanitary to just buy a new one for my home. I made SURE it was clean when left (scooped).
Today, 3 months later, I arrived home to find that litter box, a baby gate (which was mine, that's fine) and another bin of pine shavings (for litter) in my driveway, blocking my entry into my garage (electric opener, 2 car garage and he is WELL aware which side I park on). Seriously? You have to make a special trip to deliver a FULL litter box 3 months later??? Omg, he's such a loser. I texted him, asked why in the world didn't he just toss it if he didn't want it and told him something was seriously wrong with him, which it is.
He responded that he TOLD me to take ALL of my belongings when I left (as if I'm the one who betrayed him or something) and I didn't so he was returning them to me.
I should have just told him thanks because my cat has been holding it for 3 months, but I didn't. Instead I responded with "pathetic lol" and then corrected his your/you're grammar.
I've been doing really good with stuff like this (even screen shotting and sending them to my sis to show her how many times I'm ignoring him, and she's proud of me!). Today, I failed :(.
I was gone most of today with various classes and services at church, and he knew that since I had told him due to child swap issues. We also had a strained conversation about the kids' schedule since he changed it on me, but then wouldn't respect my changes as a result and got all pissy. That was resolved before church, but he was still mad I think about not having control of it and being called out.
When I moved out in the middle of June, I left a litter box (scooped/clean) in the basement for 2 of the 3 cats. I took 1 cat with me, 2 stayed. The 2 that stayed are largely outdoor cats but come inside in the frigid months and use the litter box. I left it for them and also because it was easier/more sanitary to just buy a new one for my home. I made SURE it was clean when left (scooped).
Today, 3 months later, I arrived home to find that litter box, a baby gate (which was mine, that's fine) and another bin of pine shavings (for litter) in my driveway, blocking my entry into my garage (electric opener, 2 car garage and he is WELL aware which side I park on). Seriously? You have to make a special trip to deliver a FULL litter box 3 months later??? Omg, he's such a loser. I texted him, asked why in the world didn't he just toss it if he didn't want it and told him something was seriously wrong with him, which it is.
He responded that he TOLD me to take ALL of my belongings when I left (as if I'm the one who betrayed him or something) and I didn't so he was returning them to me.
I should have just told him thanks because my cat has been holding it for 3 months, but I didn't. Instead I responded with "pathetic lol" and then corrected his your/you're grammar.
I've been doing really good with stuff like this (even screen shotting and sending them to my sis to show her how many times I'm ignoring him, and she's proud of me!). Today, I failed :(.
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