We've been together 2 years and when we first started going out she was skinny fat... But more skinny than fat. She's probably gained about 2/3 stone since then and now it's getting to the point where she is visibly fat and there are rolls. I'm really turned off by overweight girls and just the feeling of her belly makes me cringe. She wonders why i don't want sex anymore.
It's such a sore subject for her she refuses to talk about it. She won't go shopping for new clothes because she's embarrassed about none of them fitting. She won't address her eating habits as she is "too busy" and she apparently doesn't have time to exercise. I thought maybe once her job settled down she would actually do something about her weight. But no.
It's just not an attitude i can get on board with. I'm quite health conscious and yes although i indulge sometimes i know my body and try to keep it attractive for my girlfriend. I go to the gym 3/4x a week. she will not even contemplate joining me.
I'm honestly at my wits end here. It's getting to the point where I'm just gonna have to spell it out for her. Do you think this is wise?
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