Hi
Please advise me on this situation.
When we first met he was so kind and funny and clearly was fond of me and I really liked him too. I would see him glancing at me thinking I couldnt see and he was obviously trying to impress me and I had a crush on him also. However after a while when a few other guys started speaking he turned into something else. He began to spread mean rumors about me being over flirtatious with men silly things like that and saying I used my looks to get people to give me attention and stupid things like that. After a while I began seeing someone he worked close to and he kept prying, commenting and generally getting involved in our relationship for no given reasons all behind my back never anything to my face infact he was still sweet to my face although I could tell things had changed. He would also put his arm around a woman and act all lovingly with her anytime I was around and look at me for reactions and I just dont get it. I was so confused until it got to a point where I was upset and ignored him. All around these times he would go to everyone and anyone and make comments about me and just slandering my name and anytime I would come around he would purposely exclude me from things, turn people against me and sensationalize things to make me look like im a horrible person. All the while he would still be trying to catch glances of me whenever he could and talking about me, I mean why would you constantly talk about someone you hate so much? I've now just left the place where me and hiim crossed paths moving on to something else but I am left feeling confused and hurt as I've never experienced such behaviour from a guy before in my life. To make matters worse I was really fond of him and I thought we could be good friends. I really became depressed during this time due to feeling worthless and bullied and I'm scared of bumping into him again as he lives near the new place i'm going. Does anyone have any input on how I can put closure to this situation. I want to move on but I cant help but have the situations I've been going through go round and round in my head since leaving. Should I say something to him?
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