Okay...moral dilemma here.
I have a chance to SEE and READ all the texts between them!!
Its been 3 years after and I'm still consumed with the nagging questions of what they "really" talked about. (H had an emotional affair with OW) H is most forcoming with details but he also doesn't want to hurt me so I fear they are too vague for me.
I also know that the OW is never going to go away as I feel she is in love with him and is waiting for a weak moment between us although she married.
There are many reasons I would want to know but mainly...I WANT THE ADVANTAGE OF KNOWING WHAT SHE SAID TO MY HUSBAND SO ITS NOT JUST BETWEEN THEM!!!
Our marriage has been very good post DD so there's the fear of finding out 'to much' and being at square one again trying to rebuild our marriage.
WOULD YOU GO FOR IT OR LET SLEEPING DOGS LIE?????
I have a chance to SEE and READ all the texts between them!!
Its been 3 years after and I'm still consumed with the nagging questions of what they "really" talked about. (H had an emotional affair with OW) H is most forcoming with details but he also doesn't want to hurt me so I fear they are too vague for me.
I also know that the OW is never going to go away as I feel she is in love with him and is waiting for a weak moment between us although she married.
There are many reasons I would want to know but mainly...I WANT THE ADVANTAGE OF KNOWING WHAT SHE SAID TO MY HUSBAND SO ITS NOT JUST BETWEEN THEM!!!
Our marriage has been very good post DD so there's the fear of finding out 'to much' and being at square one again trying to rebuild our marriage.
WOULD YOU GO FOR IT OR LET SLEEPING DOGS LIE?????
Put the internet to work for you.
No comments:
Post a Comment