So most of you know my story - alcoholic STBX started checked out emotionally a few months ago right around the time that her also alcoholic ex started to put the press on him. She lost interest in sex although we did have sex during that time, she was always texting and FB'ing and this guy's ex confirmed that he was texting her pictures of the two of them.
So, now I'm a wreck all over again because I guess I didn't really let it sink in all the way. She denied cheating when we had our talk. Of course, she's lying - she is so cold and casual about it.
What do I do now? I've already got a lawyer drafting up the divorce docs and they should be ready in about two weeks. I know she won't respond to any texts or phone calls. I'm already pretty sure she has been told I have been meeting the other guy's ex girlfriend to compare notes. There is this "group" of people that we hung out with together. I'm not hanging out in that place anymore because they're all drunks. Do I FB message them and tell them I know? Do I email her and tell her I know? She will either not respond or tell me lies and tell me I don't know what I'm talking about. I know I shouldn't care, but I don't want to look like a complete fool either.
Do I threaten her to come clean by telling her I will subpoena phone records and emails, etc? Do I just need to let it go?
I feel lost all over again.
So, now I'm a wreck all over again because I guess I didn't really let it sink in all the way. She denied cheating when we had our talk. Of course, she's lying - she is so cold and casual about it.
What do I do now? I've already got a lawyer drafting up the divorce docs and they should be ready in about two weeks. I know she won't respond to any texts or phone calls. I'm already pretty sure she has been told I have been meeting the other guy's ex girlfriend to compare notes. There is this "group" of people that we hung out with together. I'm not hanging out in that place anymore because they're all drunks. Do I FB message them and tell them I know? Do I email her and tell her I know? She will either not respond or tell me lies and tell me I don't know what I'm talking about. I know I shouldn't care, but I don't want to look like a complete fool either.
Do I threaten her to come clean by telling her I will subpoena phone records and emails, etc? Do I just need to let it go?
I feel lost all over again.
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