What makes a man attractive and unattractive to women?

Ladies, what do you find appealing and attractive in a man. What do you find unappealing and unattractive - in other words what turns you off.

I will start with my list:
Some things that attract me to men:
Confidence
teasing flirty attitude
good sense of humor
attentiveness
gentleman's behavior (opening the car door for me, etc)
loving interaction with children or grandchildren
dressed nicely
nice physical body appearance
good communication skills (listens and talks, expresses his preferences and opinions)
protective strength
manly assertiveness with initiating sex
spiritual strength
decisiveness
Calm take charge attitude in a crisis
Successful finacially
Intelligent and knowledgeable
Relaxed and easy going attitude
nice smile

What is unattractive to me:
insecurity
grouping
being overweight and flabby
sloppy clothes
laziness
retreating and sulky when mad or upset instead of talking about issues
begging, whining, tentative behavior when initiating sex
clingy, needy behavior
overbearing, bossy behavior
not fulfilling responsibilities
know it all attitude
Mean or cruel to others
selfishness
closed minded
argumentaive just for the sake of arguing
Sexist attitude

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