Hi , I'm new and just need to vent and get other peoples views.
My husband and i have been together 27 years , married 24 years, We have two beautiful children who we are both very proud of (16 & 17) and very close to both of them
2 weeks ago out of the blue my husband told me he wants to separate, January 2014 he told me he was not in love with me any more, he loved me as the mother of his children and a long time friend, so we worked on our relationship Counciing, Date nights, private time for us, surprise gift and tasks etc and things were great, the strongest we have ever been (or so I thought)
Financially things have been tough since Christmas and I also had a cancer scare so he was stressed and I put his lack of interest (sexually, normally a very high Libedo) and huffy mood down to stress then out of the blue , I WANT A SEPARATION AND THERE IS NO HOPE OF RECONCILIATION
I know for sure this is none else involved , he is open with his phone, computer etc and his job doesn't give him time to sneak around, he has little to no social life so there can't be anyone there.
He want to stay friends and still be involved as Friends in each others lives, and put our Kids first in everything, He is living in our Granny flat until we sell our house and can start our new lives :)
My husband and i have been together 27 years , married 24 years, We have two beautiful children who we are both very proud of (16 & 17) and very close to both of them
2 weeks ago out of the blue my husband told me he wants to separate, January 2014 he told me he was not in love with me any more, he loved me as the mother of his children and a long time friend, so we worked on our relationship Counciing, Date nights, private time for us, surprise gift and tasks etc and things were great, the strongest we have ever been (or so I thought)
Financially things have been tough since Christmas and I also had a cancer scare so he was stressed and I put his lack of interest (sexually, normally a very high Libedo) and huffy mood down to stress then out of the blue , I WANT A SEPARATION AND THERE IS NO HOPE OF RECONCILIATION
I know for sure this is none else involved , he is open with his phone, computer etc and his job doesn't give him time to sneak around, he has little to no social life so there can't be anyone there.
He want to stay friends and still be involved as Friends in each others lives, and put our Kids first in everything, He is living in our Granny flat until we sell our house and can start our new lives :)
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