I recently found out my husband of 20 years has been on Facebook and found his exgirlfriend. This girlfriend had hurt him terribly with becoming pregnant and having an abortion and then cheating on him with his friend. He never friend ed her, but continuously looked at her page for almost 2 years. Might I add that this was during the most difficult time in our lives where I lost my job and we almost lost our house. I was wondering about how I was going to feed my family while he was looking at her....as well as other girlfriends, hooter website, strip club websites, porn sites. When i confronted him bout this, he lied.. he didnt realize that i could see his search history. He swore he only went on facebook 2 or 3 times ever. Am I wrong for being upset about this. I can't change how this makes me feel. I already have self-confidence issues...this didn't help at all. Now I have trust issues that I can't seem to get a handle of. I know he loves m e. But I can't understand how he would let the thought of her (ex-girlfriend) take up any space in his mind....for whatever reason he wanted to look at her. I don't want to overreact.....but I can't change how I feel or how it made me feel knowing my husband was thinking of other women. I've never been through anything like this....ever. any suggestions????
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