After 18 years of marriage I found that I could no longer even talk to my wife. Every time I asked a question, it turned into a " you're just jealous" or I have already told you once !
My questions surrounded a guy at work and when I would come by there would only be two cars left in the parking lot..Her's and his. The guy has a reputation of screwing around already and I tried to explain how it looked to me..Same answer. Then she started getting calls late at night or texting until 11 pm. Our sex life had almost stopped completely and the one time I did ask if we were ever going to have sex, she said you need to find your self a girlfriend..Well I did and that only made matters worse. I stopped trying to fix things and only became more angry with every "event". This went on for 2 years and now we have separated ( 1 month) I confessed to having an affair hoping to show her that I was trying to be honest but it has only led to more questions about who it was and what we had planned for the future..She hacked my cellphone and pulled an email I had sent where she was discussing buying houses and me getting through this...Absolutely crushed !!!! I had not told her everything was the theme !! And I guess I didn't. I have not signed the separation papers and have told her I would not unless she specifically said to which she has not..
She comes by occasionally ( I still live in the house) and now ask if I wanted her to make chicken salad and leave it in the frig !!
I have not challenged her about the guy at work, phones or anything else since we split, and have told her I wanted to try again...She just keeps saying that she needs time to get over the affair....Am I being played here and why can't she just say that we can try and work through this ???
My questions surrounded a guy at work and when I would come by there would only be two cars left in the parking lot..Her's and his. The guy has a reputation of screwing around already and I tried to explain how it looked to me..Same answer. Then she started getting calls late at night or texting until 11 pm. Our sex life had almost stopped completely and the one time I did ask if we were ever going to have sex, she said you need to find your self a girlfriend..Well I did and that only made matters worse. I stopped trying to fix things and only became more angry with every "event". This went on for 2 years and now we have separated ( 1 month) I confessed to having an affair hoping to show her that I was trying to be honest but it has only led to more questions about who it was and what we had planned for the future..She hacked my cellphone and pulled an email I had sent where she was discussing buying houses and me getting through this...Absolutely crushed !!!! I had not told her everything was the theme !! And I guess I didn't. I have not signed the separation papers and have told her I would not unless she specifically said to which she has not..
She comes by occasionally ( I still live in the house) and now ask if I wanted her to make chicken salad and leave it in the frig !!
I have not challenged her about the guy at work, phones or anything else since we split, and have told her I wanted to try again...She just keeps saying that she needs time to get over the affair....Am I being played here and why can't she just say that we can try and work through this ???
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