I really like my friend.
But she has a boyfriend who lives in another country. (Long distance relationship 4+ yrs) She plans to marry him.
I told her how I feel. She said that I already know she has a boyfriend and that she loves him and that I shouldn't be selfish.
I said ok I'm sorry, but we can stay friends.
I'm finding it very difficult. But I want to stay friends with her because we get on really well together and she considers me her close friend.
I can't tell her how I feel again or it will ruin our friendship. I was already very close to ruining it the first time I told her. She said to me we can't be friends anymore because she doesn't want to see me sad. But I said to her don't worry I will be ok.
But I'm really not ok.
It's currently the summer holidays so I haven't seen her for 2 months and I won't see her until October.
I know she loves somebody else and I should accept that but I am always thinking about her.
I am always thinking what is she doing, how is she, etc. And I always get jealous and uncomfortable when she is talking to other guys. Why is that? How can I stop thinking like that? I know we are just friends but I get upset too easily. I over analyse every small thing and it's driving me insane.
I really don't know what to do.
Also, regarding her boyfriend, he is living in another country and they have only met once, yet they have been talking, skyping for 4yrs. I don't see them being together but she is determined she will.
Can somebody offer some good advice as to what I should do?
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