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First Year Woes: Is it really supposed to be this difficult at the beginning?

Hi guys! I'm new here and this is my first post. I'm having a bit of a rough time, so I'm hoping I can get a little insight from you.

My husband and I married last October after only knowing each other for a few months. I know we rushed, but we felt at the time, and still do, that we were making the right decision. I have absolutely no regrets nor does he. This year had certainly been full of trials and tribulations, though! We've been through a lot, with him initially moving halfway around the world to be with me, and then me moving halfway around the world back to his home country to be with him.

That being said, we had a really, really good thing in the beginning. We were so crazy in love, I had no worries, fears or insecurities. We've always been a couple that bickers, but never really fought. Until now. Now that I've been living over here with him (almost 3 months), we've been fighting constantly and it's been pretty ugly. I worry all the time about us. I am so happy to be with him and still feel this deep infatuation for him, but I worry how he feels. I guess you could say that I'm still in the honeymoon phase and he is not. I'm worried I am going to lose him and I don't know what to do.

I'm wondering if this is normal for the beginning stages of a marriage? Most of my friends say the first few years of their marriages were the toughest and they had to work really hard. I'm willing to do whatever it takes, even willing to go to counseling, although my husband is not. He says we don't need it because we don't have any problems.

Advice? Insight?

Thank you all in advance :)

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