Wife-33 (Divorced)
Me-34 (Widower)
Married-13mos
I am so confused about my mind and heart. I was a widower before I married my wife. I gave my wife every dime to finance a successful defense in her custody case and she ended up screwing us with some back room deal that basically is worse off than what she had originally gotten from her divorce. I started to question her commitment to OUR new life as her money was not enough to even cover her monthly expenses and I am forking the bill for everything else along with all the household responsibility.
We don't fight much because I refuse to Argue, I am a retired soldier and I unfortunately I am brutally honest(MY DOWNFALL)
and I don't get any pleasure from hurting my wifes feelings.
I have been accused from day 1 by her family of being controlling so every situation makes me feel guilty for feeling a certain way or wanting her to see things from my perspective.
How do I get past the resentment for placing all of the responsibilities off on me or letting the ex-husband doop her once again and losing all of my savings of about $11,788, did I give her that money out of love or pitty?
I am sorry to bother all of you with my problems but my family is driving me crazy and I would like to hear from some people that have either been where I am or that can help me understand why that I can't trust my wifes decision making?
Me-34 (Widower)
Married-13mos
I am so confused about my mind and heart. I was a widower before I married my wife. I gave my wife every dime to finance a successful defense in her custody case and she ended up screwing us with some back room deal that basically is worse off than what she had originally gotten from her divorce. I started to question her commitment to OUR new life as her money was not enough to even cover her monthly expenses and I am forking the bill for everything else along with all the household responsibility.
We don't fight much because I refuse to Argue, I am a retired soldier and I unfortunately I am brutally honest(MY DOWNFALL)
and I don't get any pleasure from hurting my wifes feelings.
I have been accused from day 1 by her family of being controlling so every situation makes me feel guilty for feeling a certain way or wanting her to see things from my perspective.
How do I get past the resentment for placing all of the responsibilities off on me or letting the ex-husband doop her once again and losing all of my savings of about $11,788, did I give her that money out of love or pitty?
I am sorry to bother all of you with my problems but my family is driving me crazy and I would like to hear from some people that have either been where I am or that can help me understand why that I can't trust my wifes decision making?
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