Once a cheater always a cheater?

So here is my question,

I am going thru a divorce because my husband was a jealous freak with insecurities so deep, he ended up cheating.

I obviously am jaded. I don't trust men. I don't mean to sound mean about it but I mean men who have cheated on their previous partners.

When we were dating he told me he did cheat on his ex a lot. And he didn't love her. And now that we are divcorcing (he brought on the divorce after I caught him) he says I am the love of his life etc.... he never physically cheated, was just looking for ego boost when he was down and depressed about our troubles. Whatever. I am divorcing him and its over.

now moving on to new people has been hard because A. I am still married, and he is still chasing my tail, he still pays all the bills, and I plan to honor my marriage until the papers are finalized.

but I wont lie. there are people I am attracted to and I find out they have cheated and I just smile and pretend we are okay. but im not. because I wont trust them.

Am I right for feeling this way? or am I overreacting to the once a cheater always a cheater?

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