I am 32 and is married for just over 1 year, no children yet.
I am pretty outgoing, smart and full of sense of humor but my wife is pretty dumb and cant understand most of the things I said. My attitude before was just let it be. We got no common interest and not much common frd. Most people know we are from different world, i.e. I classify myself with mid-high IQ and very good EQ, but my wife is with low IQ and very low EQ. But well we are together.
We went for a trip for the past few days and I met a girl whom is very out-going. I never meet a girl like this before and just got very interested in her somehow, which I never have a feeling to any girls like this for the past 5 years since I dated my wife. She turned out to be my wife's friend's girlfriend as well. And for a bit more information her boyfrd has proposed to her beforehand, and she rejected because she thought they were not very matched since her boyfrd was very "home-base", and they got separated, but were together again now.
Now we are back for a day and I got a lot of distraction from this, was thinking about her a lot and wechated and facebooked her as well. My gut feel was to try to know her more and get close to her as much as possible, I think we will be very happy together since I think we match very well, but on the other hand I know it will be extremely tough to get rid of my marriage, and all the obstacles.
Throughout this I start to feel a marriage crisis start to emerge, even though I can pass this test, but there will be future problem lies ahead. I am a guy full of passion but lack of desire before, recently I have just pick up the desire in my career and I start to change me lay back attitude, which also affects my view towards my wife, which was just let it be beforehand.
So I am stuck in a limbo now. To be honest what I am thinking now is given time, since most likely nothing will yield, and the feeling to her will lay down. But now it is big problem.
I am pretty outgoing, smart and full of sense of humor but my wife is pretty dumb and cant understand most of the things I said. My attitude before was just let it be. We got no common interest and not much common frd. Most people know we are from different world, i.e. I classify myself with mid-high IQ and very good EQ, but my wife is with low IQ and very low EQ. But well we are together.
We went for a trip for the past few days and I met a girl whom is very out-going. I never meet a girl like this before and just got very interested in her somehow, which I never have a feeling to any girls like this for the past 5 years since I dated my wife. She turned out to be my wife's friend's girlfriend as well. And for a bit more information her boyfrd has proposed to her beforehand, and she rejected because she thought they were not very matched since her boyfrd was very "home-base", and they got separated, but were together again now.
Now we are back for a day and I got a lot of distraction from this, was thinking about her a lot and wechated and facebooked her as well. My gut feel was to try to know her more and get close to her as much as possible, I think we will be very happy together since I think we match very well, but on the other hand I know it will be extremely tough to get rid of my marriage, and all the obstacles.
Throughout this I start to feel a marriage crisis start to emerge, even though I can pass this test, but there will be future problem lies ahead. I am a guy full of passion but lack of desire before, recently I have just pick up the desire in my career and I start to change me lay back attitude, which also affects my view towards my wife, which was just let it be beforehand.
So I am stuck in a limbo now. To be honest what I am thinking now is given time, since most likely nothing will yield, and the feeling to her will lay down. But now it is big problem.
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