Hello all.
My wife confessed a couple months ago to me of an affair she had a few years ago.
We are trying to work through things and while things have definitely been up and down, I feel we are making progress.
The one constant feeling I can't seem to get past is that the OM seems to have got away with this unharmed.
I'm not looking to do anything stupid/illegal, but I do feel the need to do something. He knows I know and I just can't handle not doing anything.
The big problem I am having is that both my wife and I really do NOT want things exposed. So anything I do can't expose the affair.
I know many of you will advise not doing anything. Many will probably suggest we tell people what happened, but we have our reasons so calling him out in public/work about what happened won't work.
I'm struggling with what to do to him that will not expose what happened and nothing that could potentially get me in trouble.
I understand my wife is 90% responsible because she is the one that betrayed OUR marriage, but this guy initiated and pursued things initially knowing full well she was married.
Have any of you done things to the OM? What are some of the things you did?
My wife confessed a couple months ago to me of an affair she had a few years ago.
We are trying to work through things and while things have definitely been up and down, I feel we are making progress.
The one constant feeling I can't seem to get past is that the OM seems to have got away with this unharmed.
I'm not looking to do anything stupid/illegal, but I do feel the need to do something. He knows I know and I just can't handle not doing anything.
The big problem I am having is that both my wife and I really do NOT want things exposed. So anything I do can't expose the affair.
I know many of you will advise not doing anything. Many will probably suggest we tell people what happened, but we have our reasons so calling him out in public/work about what happened won't work.
I'm struggling with what to do to him that will not expose what happened and nothing that could potentially get me in trouble.
I understand my wife is 90% responsible because she is the one that betrayed OUR marriage, but this guy initiated and pursued things initially knowing full well she was married.
Have any of you done things to the OM? What are some of the things you did?
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