Mrs.CuddleBug and I have a cat who is about 13 to 14 years old now. She usually never gets sick, is lean and is still very active.
A day ago, our cat couldn't keep her food down and puked up whenever she ate. She does get hairballs like all cats do and occasionally does puke up.
That Saturday, I was up early, went to the nursery across town, got some lilac's, dug the big holes (nasty rocks and roots), planted, pruned and cleaned up everything (5 hours). Then I grocery shopped, picked up a package from UPS, got toilet handle assemblies to fix both toilets, and recycled. (2 hours). During this time, Mrs.CuddleBug is crying, very upset about our cat being sick, what should I do? I told her, if you feel she is that sick, take her to the vet. 1.5 hours later, she is still here, crying, what should I do? I am very tired at this point and again I tell her, take our cat to the vet!!! She finally does this but gets mad at me for not taking the cat myself or going with her. Yet I had 7 hours of chores and errands to do on my day off and she had basically nothing to do on her day off.
See, Mrs.CuddleBug is a very emotionally sensitive woman, were as I am not a very emotional guy. Her super sensitive emotions totally overwhelm me and I go crazy. I told her, next time, something like this happens, I will give her a long hug, listen a bit and leave her be because if she transfers all this onto me, I go crazy and she feels great but I get no sex multiple times to then get that out of my system. See?
How could I or should I of handled this better?
Oh, I've fed the cat this morning a little bit and now some more and no puking it up, but she is tired and has slept a lot. Probably just sick but we are taking her to get her teeth done and get blood work done.
A day ago, our cat couldn't keep her food down and puked up whenever she ate. She does get hairballs like all cats do and occasionally does puke up.
That Saturday, I was up early, went to the nursery across town, got some lilac's, dug the big holes (nasty rocks and roots), planted, pruned and cleaned up everything (5 hours). Then I grocery shopped, picked up a package from UPS, got toilet handle assemblies to fix both toilets, and recycled. (2 hours). During this time, Mrs.CuddleBug is crying, very upset about our cat being sick, what should I do? I told her, if you feel she is that sick, take her to the vet. 1.5 hours later, she is still here, crying, what should I do? I am very tired at this point and again I tell her, take our cat to the vet!!! She finally does this but gets mad at me for not taking the cat myself or going with her. Yet I had 7 hours of chores and errands to do on my day off and she had basically nothing to do on her day off.
See, Mrs.CuddleBug is a very emotionally sensitive woman, were as I am not a very emotional guy. Her super sensitive emotions totally overwhelm me and I go crazy. I told her, next time, something like this happens, I will give her a long hug, listen a bit and leave her be because if she transfers all this onto me, I go crazy and she feels great but I get no sex multiple times to then get that out of my system. See?
How could I or should I of handled this better?
Oh, I've fed the cat this morning a little bit and now some more and no puking it up, but she is tired and has slept a lot. Probably just sick but we are taking her to get her teeth done and get blood work done.
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