I'll try to keep this short. I'm a university student and I've been going out with my boyfriend for a few months now, and we've had a lot of ups and downs already. He always talks about other girls and how he fancies so-and-so. It didn't bother me in the beginning but now it's getting to me. He even mentions girls he's been with in the past and lied to me about a few things in the beginning. My friends who have seen how he behaves with me have said they think he's arrogant and doesn't show respect for me. I've felt quite hurt by him in the past and that's made me insecure over time, and he now says I'm overreacting and am insecure for no reason. Despite all the ups and downs, tears and arguments, he is still so important to me and I really want things to work. I don't know what to think any more, and my rational side is just crumbling. I don't know whether I'm just a crazy jealous girlfriend or whether he's driven me to this height of insecurity and he's in the wr ong.
I just need a few words of advice about how to build my trust for him... or just general relationship advice, because I do really care for him. At the end of the day, he has me in the palm of his hands and could crush me whenever he wants.. and he knows that. This might sound really petty but it's so unlike me to be like this in the first place... I'm normally a really strong person and don't take any crap from anyone - but with him all this just melts away. I don't know what to do.
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